As you will read it can be very confusing to know what is safe and what is not. Since our opening in June 2000, we have always been focused on health. We were the first company to ban toxic sex toys and lubricants from our site and are the dominant leader in the industry in educating the public about this important issue.
In all of our research, we uncovered web sites and adult stores that were making all types of errors in the information they were providing consumers. Some of them were either not saying anything or were incorrect. We simply want to let you know what we have uncovered and what we have done about it so that you can have peace of mind about your choices when it comes to sexual health products.
Even if sex toys are not toxic they can cause chemical reactions when used and/or stored with other sex toys (depending on the materials). This can also happen when a sex toy is used with inappropriate lubricants for a sex toy's material type. That is why we provide educational articles and information on each product page so that you know what material the product is made out of, how to store it and what lubricant you should use with it.
If you have questions about any product you have or desire to purchase from us, please feel free to contact us as we are happy to assist you. Please note that all of the products we sell are free of toxins such as phthalates, lead, and parabens.
Below are pictures of sex toys that have literally melted by simply being stored together (over a period of 3 and 5 months while stored in mason jars). This is why we highly recommend sex toy storage bags to keep sexual products separated and protected. Please note that nothing was added to these sex toys when placed in the mason jar and the photos below have not been altered. The liquid you see is from the chemical interaction between the sex toys which caused them to melt. This is why so many of our products are made with 100% silicone as silicone does not melt like this even when placed with other silicone sex toys.Melted Sex Toys Shown At Three Months
Melted Sex Toys Shown At Five Months
Five Examples of Toxins in Sexual Products
Smell Does Not Always Indicate Toxicity
Another issue is the smell factor. Generally, it has been said that you can smell some toxins through what is commonly referred to as that 'new shower curtain smell. What some experts are claiming is that it is the smell of poisonous chemicals that are off-gassing from the PVC.
Smell Study Debatable
A recent study released by the Center for Health, Environment and Justice (CHEJ) on shower curtains received a great deal of media attention, which in turn gave erroneous information about phthalates. It was not shocking that they found phthalates in the shower curtains, as phthalate esters are a key ingredient in soft vinyl (often found in shower curtains). The error was in saying that it is the phthalates that cause the smell when in fact, phthalates can in be in some cases near odorless. Even more interesting was that the CHEJ failed to detect phthalates off-gassing from the shower curtains in its lab test. The other issue in this study that was overlooked, is that phthalate exposure levels can vary and shower curtains and reports show that those in the U.S. are well within safe levels, as verified by data from the U.S. Government Centers for Disease Control.
Sex Toys Require Extra Precautions
Of course regarding the matter of sex toys, there is still not much information available in the mainstream media and thus caution should be exercised considering that most sex toys come into contact with some of the most porous parts of our bodies. This would make absorption of toxins quite easy and is why we ensure that products sold on our web sites are all considered within the safe zones that we have outlined through our research.
another issue that many people do not think about, let alone massage
oils, creams and other products that are absorbed by the skin. It
is why we carry a limited array of lubricants and related products
as we are strict about what they can have in them.
For example, when a study was released asserting that Benzocaine (found in most sexual desensitizers) can cause irregular heartbeats and even death we pulled those products from our site and posted articles about it. While the study showed that it mainly involved leaving the creams on the skin for long periods of time or on large portions of their bodies, we felt that due to the fact that the creams are put into highly absorptive parts of the body that we would not carry them unless they had less than 7.5% as seen in the System Jo desensitizer. You will find that most adult stores still carry many of those products with no warnings to consumers about them.
Sex Toy Stores Typically In The Dark
Most people who work for sex toy stores do not know what are in sex toys and are often in the dark about what makes something toxic. Because sex toys are not regulated (they fall under novelties rather than medical devices by FDA classifications) many in the adult industry do not know what sex toys are made of (as the materials are often not listed on or in the packaging). Often the companies that do claim to be knowledgeable are making blanket statements as to whether a type of product is safe or not.
We have seen other web sites stating information that is simply not true based on the scientific research that is available. For example, some are claiming that if a sex toy is not 100% silicone then it is toxic. This is not necessarily true, as it depends on what other ingredients the manufacturer added to the silicone.A while back a website visitor contacted us to say that our Sue Johanson sex toy line was not 100% medical grade silicone and was therefore it must have phthalates in them, making them toxic. We double checked our research and in actuality, while it is not 100% medical grade silicone, the products are made with other materials that are phthalate free and thus the claims were false. It is easy to see why someone might jump to the conclusion when you read a lot of the hype on other web sites, but it is important to remain focused on factual information rather than fall into the dramatic claims that many are now making. It not only hurts falsely accused companies, but it denies the public of accurate information and products that are perfectly safe for them to use.
Research Still Needed
There simply needs to be more long term research to truly make some of the claims people are making about adult products at this point. It is irresponsible to become an extremist in either direction on this topic. As we researched for our own resources, we found that many web sites had inaccurate or misleading information. This was not only frustrating for us as we sorted through months of research, but it was alarming that many of these web sites were making false claims and / or blanket statements about toxins in sex toys in such a manner that an unsuspecting consumer would simply swallow these things as the truth.
What Holistic Wisdom Is Doing About Sex Toy Safety
There are so many questions that customers have about what is safe and what is not so, we have and are continuing to provide research to help with the most up to date information. However, because it can be confusing enough just to pick out a sex toy, we decided to go completely nontoxic as well as green rather than make customers have to go through all of our research just to select a safe product.
Our hope is to raise the bar on this issue of sex toy safety and to provide truthful, responsible information to consumers. We have gone straight to the manufacturers as well as consulted with multiple chemists to find out about every sex toy we carry. We have researched each product to determine what it is constructed of and if it falls under what we know to be safe. We have also decided that until there is more information on some of the questionable materials, we are going to err on the side of caution and refuse to carry products that contain them.
We avoid brining on any questionable products (which could not be verified as safe and nontoxic sex toys) in addition to providing recycling information on the materials in the products we sell. We are also a green company that practices what we preach when it comes to helping the environment and empowering people about their health.
We have done this so that those who visit our stores can feel comfortable knowing that no matter what they purchase, it is safe for them to use. After all, having peace of mind when it comes to sexual health is what we specialize in. Sex should be relaxing, fun, pleasurable and we want to make that as easy as possible for you to enjoy. If you have any questions or feedback about this article, please feel free to contact us as we are happy to hear from our readers.
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