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so many sex toys on the market many men still find themselves
wondering what products they can use to bring themselves sexual
gratification when they struggle with issues of Erectile
Dysfunction (A.K.A. - Impotence), so that is why we
review the best product options below.
are already a limited amount of sex toys for men as many quality
toys on the market are focused on female sexual arousal. However,
when you throw in the dilemma of having to deal with a flaccid
penis there is even less to choose from so we have put together
this helpful article to give you sex toy suggestions for your
Erectile Dysfunction Products Below
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality
CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS
Copyright © Holistic Wisdom, Inc.
There are many
reasons a man can experience Erectile Dysfunction from health problems
(such as high blood pressure, heart disease, elevated cholesterol
levels, and diabetes) to mental health issues (such as depression
and even stress). Therefore, before we begin discussing sex toy
options for Erectile Dysfunction, we do want to stress that if you
have not already seen your physician regarding this issue then you
really need to in order to rule out any serious health problems
that may need to be addressed.
are a variety of ways that a man can experience sexual pleasure
using sex toys when dealing with Erectile Dysfunction-
can use sex toys to achieve an erection and to hold it in
order to have intercourse or so that you may masturbate
or use a masturbation sleeve.
can use sex toys to provide just enough sexual stimulation
to achieve an orgasm with or without ejaculation (dry
can use sex toys to provide sexual stimulation to improve
blood flow and as a way to relax without orgasm.
of the main struggles a man experiences with Erectile
Dysfunction is not being able to get enough blood flow
into the penis or the ability to hold it. That is why
penis pumps are often recommended as they help bring
blood into the penis making it erect and at the very
least helping improve circulation and enhancing sensitivity
can also create a pleasurable suction sensation that
can be combined with vibration to not only assist with
achieving an erection but providing an orgasm when used
as a masturbation tool. We provide an in-depth article
about penis pumps to help you choose the right one
is one product that can be used as an alternative to pumps
that uses what is referred to as penis traction. Penis traction
works by steadily stretching the shaft of the penis causing
the cells to divide and multiply (cytokinesis) which promotes
new and permanent tissue growth throughout the penis in a
matter of weeks to enlarge the penis as well as assist with
erectile dysfunction as well as Peyronie's Disease. Learn
more about how penis
Best Masturbation Sleeve for
Men with Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
- Masturbation & Couples Toy
solo and couple's sex toy for men with Erectile Dysfunction
is the Pulse by Hot Octopuss. The reason is because it acts
both as a male masturbation sleeve without requiring an erection
and it can also be used as a couple's sex toy. In addition,
because it provides pulse vibration and can get a man to ejaculate
without a full erection. The design is based on a medical
device used in hospitals for conception purposes so it is
quite effective. It also helps provide blood flow and stimulation
to a man's penis which improves the health of the penis and
may contribute to improvement of penile circulation and sexual
a vibrator with a flat base such as the Denia and Rosa (shown
the the right) allows your lover to wear a sex toy without
a harness and allows a male with ED to press his penis against
her labia and the vibrator which provides simultaneous stimulation
for both partners.
and Rosa are hands down the best dual stimulators with double
motors in them for both clitoral and gspot stimulation and
the flat base also allows the user to sit with them inserted
in addition to using with a partner enjoying the base and
skin to skin contact. The Rosa may also be used anally for
both men and women.
the Rosa as a prostate massager can help men achieve erections
and orgasms even when they have ED. These products are great
for solo and couples use and allow for a variety of creative
Vibrators for partners and
Men with Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
Best Masturbation Sleeve Pump
Stroke - Masturbation Toy
masturbation sleeve / pump is the Perfect Stoke as it comes
in three styles and is a suction pump based which provides
unique and realistic sensations for the penis whether it is
flaccid or erect. This makes it ideal for any man including
those who struggle with ED (erectile dysfunction). While it
is not designed to improve performance, it does provide a
masturbation sleeve that can be used by men who have ED and
have difficulty with other types of masturbation sleeves.
For more information, there are customer reviews as well as
a product video available on the product page.
option is the Rockbox 2 comes with a male attachment designed
to stimulate the penis without it having to be erect. Using
this helps to increase blood flow and provides stimulating
sensations that have many men with ED able to ejaculate while
using it. It can also be used by a woman so it is a wonderful
sex toy for couples and solo use.
Men with Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
for Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
can be felt within the electrodes and can stimulate one to experience
a hands-free orgasm with little effort. These machines are designed
to increase erotic pleasure and can also be used to relax muscles
and reduce stress. Furthermore,
they may be helpful for medical inhibitors which prevent normal
sexual functioning and may be useful in cases of infertility, erectile
dysfunction (ED), female sexual dysfunction and even for those who
have disabilities that prevent them from having sex such as paralysis.
more information, please see our Electrostimulation
sex toy that can be used is a cockring (A.K.A. Penis Ring,
Love Ring, Vibrating Ring). They can be used alone or with
penis pumps and other sex toys. The reason that these products
are so popular when addressing Erectile Dysfunction is that
they put pressure around the base of the penis pushing blood
into the shaft and helping to hold an erection.
offer vibrators on them which will help to bring flood flow
to the penis and also aid in maintaining an erection. They
also offer clitoral stimulation when using them with a female
partner and anal stimulation for both sexes if you get one
that has an anal vibrator component on it.
cockrings may want to avoided if a man is having difficulty
having an orgasm as they hold the testicles away from the
body and are intended to prolong sex. They do this by keeping
the testicles from pulling up, which is what occurs when and
orgasm is reached. Therefore, it may be to a man's advantage
to use a vibrating single cockring if he is dealing with Erectile
Using a little
lubricant on sex toys for men, especially with cockrings help to
make sliding them down the base of the penis more comfortable. This
is advised as they can pull at the sensitive skin of your penis
if you do not which may cause discomfort. We recommend using a waterbased
lubricant as they will not have any interactions with any sex
toy materials and make sure to get one that is paraben
free. See are helpful article to learn more about cockrings.
also use prostate massagers to help in achieving ejaculation.
Massaging the prostate is not only pleasurable for men, but
has strong health benefits, including but not limited to the
prevention of prostate cancer. Read our article on prostate
massage to learn more about the health benefits as well
as the sex toys that can be used to make it easy and fun to
do with or without a partner.
are able to get an erection then using a masturbation sleeve
for men may be an option for you and you can always add a
small vibrator in
the end of the sleeve or wear a vibrating cockring while using
one in order to help you keep your erection and provide you
with added stimulation and blood flow.
are only a few vibrators for men on the market right now that you
can use without getting an erection and these are some examples-
are some other sex toys for Erectile Dysfunction that you may also
want to consider-
Hollow Dildos & Erectile Dysfunction
options for Erectile
Dysfunction when Viagra does not work or cannot be taken
there are a few options that sex toys can offer before one would
consider doing something as extreme as a penile implant.
Pumps & Rings
If you are
able to get a partial erection or simply cannot hold it, you
may want to first consider using a penis pump to help engorge
the penis with blood and then use a penis ring that slides down
to the base of the shaft to hold the blood in and keep the erection
firm until ejaculation occurs. There are some myths about what
a penis pump and penis rings (cockrings) can do so we have put
together articles that will help you to better understand how
to use them, what they can offer and also how to use them safely
without causing tissue damage.
Hollow Dildos & Two Hole Harnesses-
If you wish
to explore using a strap-on dildo whether or not you can get
erect and hold the erection, then there are two options. The
first is to use a hollow dildo and the second is to use a harness
that allows you to fit inside or outside of it while you penetrate
using a dildo. There are some pros and cons to using each and
it is important to review them so that you make sure that you
do not get something that will not work for you or your partner.
the large sex toy industry, there are very few companies that
make hollow dildos on the market today and even fewer that make
them so that they are nontoxic. We have all of the nontoxic
that are available at this time on our site from which you may
choose. However, there are a few things to note about hollow
dildos that are currently available-
are typically 1.75 - 2 inches in diameter on the outside.
In fact, we have not found a model at this time that is smaller
in width. The large diameter is done so that the penis will
fit inside whether you are semi erect or flaccid. The problem
that many couples find in using these larger dildos is that
the female partner often finds them to be too big and may
even find it painful.
dildos that are currently on the market are typically very
hard on the inside and do not provide stimulation to the male
user in any way.
Hole Harness Option-
the most popular suggestions that we offer to couples that
are dealing with Erectile Dysfunction is to use a harness
that has two holes in it. What this allows is for the couple
to use any dildo they like so that they can choose size, color,
texture and material while allowing for skin to skin contact
(which hollow dildos are not designed to do).
that this works is that the male puts his penis in the bottom
hole and then puts the dildo in the top. This allows him to
penetrate his lover while still rubbing up against his lover
providing him with skin to skin contact and stimulation. In
addition, if he is erect, he can penetrate his lover without
having to take off the harness.
Double Hole Harness
The Best Realistic Strap-On Dildos
asked by our customers for the best strap-on dildo to
use with a harness, we often refer them to the our
silicone dildos. There are a few reasons that we recommend
dildos such as these-
of the most durable dildos are silicone, metal and glass.
Most customers when looking for a strap-on indicate that
they want something that is realistic feeling. That pretty
much rules out metal and glass because while they are
great dildos and feel really good, they do not feel like
a real penis and are not for someone who wants something
silicone dildos do not feel realistic so that is why many
consumers buy dildos made from skin like materials such
as Cyberskin. The problem with these skin types of materials
is that they are very porous and they tear easily.
When a sex
toy is porous it can hold onto bacteria easily and it is much
more difficult to keep clean. To clean them you must use a spray
on toy cleaner, let the cleaner
get down into the pores and then rinse it off. You cannot use
soap as the soap will stay in the pores and many create a soapy
lather the next time you use it. It is important to keep the
bacteria off a sex toy as it can cause a urinary
tract infection (UTI) or even contribute to a yeast
why we are often asked by our customers if we have silicone
sex toys that feel like skin and are realistic to the touch.
What we also like about them is that they have a firm inner
core but a softer outer layer that is velvety smooth and slightly
squishy like a real penis. They are rigid like an erect penis
and will not flop around like Cyberskin style dildos. Finally,
because they are made with medical grade silicone, they are
nonporous and will not harbor bacteria, they are also very easy
medical grade, silicone dildos tend to be more expensive than
other dildos because the silicone material is more expensive
for manufacturers to use, however, it is well worth it because
they are also extremely durable and will literally last a lifetime
unlike other dildos that may have to be replaced after a couple
years if not sooner.
is one product that can be used as an alternative to pumps
that uses what is referred to as penis traction. Penis
traction works by steadily stretching the shaft of the
penis causing the cells to divide and multiply (cytokinesis)
which promotes new and permanent tissue growth throughout
the penis in a matter of weeks to enlarge the penis as
well as assist with erectile dysfunction as well as Peyronie's
Disease. Learn more about how
penis traction works.