Also known as 'Analingus,' it is the act of licking or inserting the tongue into the anus to provide pleasure. Both men and women enjoy analingus and you can use some of the same techniques on each. Positioning where the receiver's butt cheeks are naturally spread such as kneeling on all fours (doggie style) with their legs spread apart, or on their back with their legs up in the air (again, legs spread apart) makes the anus easier to access.
Performing oral sex after analingus is not something that should be done as it will transfer harmful bacteria into the urethra (pee tube) of both a male and female recipient. This can cause a very painful urinary tract infection which will have to be treated with antibiotics. One thing you can do before attempting oral sex analingus is to thoroughly brush your teeth and tongue and use Listerine.
Anal sex should done in a manner that allows both partners to enjoy it. Start slowly, use a lot of lubricant and do not use desensitizers with Benzocaine like Anal Eze so that you do not feel pain. It is important to listen to your body and using them is not only ignoring the warning signals that your body is sending, but there are health risks with the main ingredient in the desensitizers- benzocaine.
Desensitizers can contain numbing drugs that can include lidocaine, tetracaine, benzocaine and prilocaine. The FDA said consumers should be cautious about using them without medical supervision. Leaving the creams on the skin for long periods of time or on large portions of their bodies can increase the risk, officials have said. Small children and people with heart or severe liver disease are also at higher risk.
Numbing creams and lotions, available both by prescription and over the counter, are approved to soothe burning or itching skin as well as pain and to decrease sensation.
Anal Love For Men
Traditionally, physicians would massage their patients' prostates regularly to cure or prevent disease. Now, however, most doctors only check the prostate, and if they find a problem prefer to cut it out or prescribe medication.
By the way, surveys prove that over half of heterosexual men experiment with anal play. So if you're seriously considering it... it doesn't mean you're gay. If you'll pardon the tasteless metaphor, prostate play is an acquired taste. Most guys only enjoy it after repeated practice. That was certainly true for me. At first, I was tight, tense, and clamped rigidly shut. In fact, at times it was downright painful.
Because it focuses on pleasure as a divine imperative, Tantra was the perfect vehicle for me to welcome male G-Spot Orgasm. Under my guidance, my beloved learned to warm me up, lube me up, and enter me oh so gently. Even so, she initially contacted hot spots, ultra sensitive areas that needed to be healed with repeated exercise coupled with Tantric energy breathing. Stage by stage I got to the point where I could relax my sphincter almost at will.
Did you know there are two ring-like muscles that guard your anus, one under your control and one normally ruled by the involuntary nervous system? Developing the ability to relax and open both at will was a big step for me in welcoming G-Spot pleasure. Gradually I could feel new and unique sensations from the strokes on my prostate gland. Our Tantra training in the mid 1990s taught us to engage in penis and G-Spot massage as part of a multiple orgasm program."
Sexual intensity is enhanced by massaging the penis at the same time. Some men have passed out from the sheer pleasure so be prepared for an amazing sexual experience.
You can stimulate the prostate with a finger, dildo or other anal toy through the anus. If you are using your finger or anal sex toys, you can perform fellatio (blow job) or a handjob at the same time. If you or your partner do not like the anus area being stimulated you can firmly massage the perineum (a.k.a - 'taint')
Some men enjoy it, some others don't. The amount that a man will enjoy this depends on how he feels about it in general.
Some men may find it unpleasant for a number of reasons, while others will experience incredible orgasms. Relaxation and patience is the key.
Anal Love For Women
In a woman, the nerve centers of the vagina and the anus share several common walls and paths. When stimulated together, women can experience enhanced pleasure and extremely intense orgasms. Thus, double penetration (simultaneous insertion into the anus and vagina) can be an amazing sexual experience for a woman. Women also enjoy exclusive anal stimulation, both around the rim of the anus and through insertion and penetration.
Toys, Fingers & Penis
Using a sex toy such as a g-spot stimulator, dildo or anal beads can be exciting to a woman. While anal sex is not something all women enjoy, women can have anal orgasms and even female ejaculate while having one.
Many women enjoy rimming, and penetration, so the use of the toys, finger and penis for anal stimulation are all great ways to play.